A maid's diary

March 20th 2019

My first day as a maid

In the first moment, when I agreed to this contract, I still was thinking, Louise Valois was kidding on me, when she said, this contract is real. But she was not kidding, she was very serious about it. She said, I am not the first High Society Lady, who was forced to become a maid, so I would get used to it, soon. I was not sure about it, how soon….

Louise took all my clothes, papers and property and gave me a maid`s uniform. She said, this is your new life now, you only need to follow each order and your maid`s life will be ok. Then she locked a steel collar around my neck, steel cuffs around my wrists and ankles and said: People should see at once, that i am not free anymore, that I am 24/7 a maid from now on. I said: "Louise, you're kidding me."

The Dark Mistress slapped my face and said;: "It`s Madame Valois now, FiFi and this is your new life, FiFi. Get used to it." I frightened and started to believe in her….maybe, I just did not want to be slapped again. "FiFi, you did not believe me, that I do have a guitar-shaped swimming pool in the garden of my Villa. Now you go outside and start to clean it. This will be one of your daily tasks from now on. Cleaning the pool.“

March 21st 2019

Cleaning The Pool
I hated to clean the pool, but i did not dared to complain. I had to wear this heavy thick uncomfortable cotton maid uniform in hot sun, while scrubbing the pool. After I filled it with water again, Madame Valois was sunbathing at the pool, and I had to serve her cold drinks, while I had to stand beside her, when she was laying on her luxurious pool furniture. I had to stay there for hours in the sun, and she only said: "Get used to it, you re just a maid, FiFi."

Getting used to being a maid
Madame Valois smiled about my ongoing degradation. She always said: "Get used to to being a maid.  FiFi." Then she handed over a link to a website, where I could read about my new fate: http://lady2maid.blogspot.com/

March 22nd 2019

Former best girlfriends
When one of my best high society girlfriends found out, that my lifestyle changed so suddenly, she only said: Darling, we can `t be best girlfriends anymore, I am from upper class, you not, but you may adress me as „Mylady“ from now on and do a curtsey when you meet me…..of course before and after each sentence you say to me

March 23rd 2019

Controlled, inspected and correctedWhen I was scrubbing pool, I heard, how Madame Valois was speaking to a person on smartphone. I heard her saying: Fiffi`s s life should be completely controled. This is, how FiFi is to be trained now: Those are the rules, Fifi  has to follow like a maid, she is no member of high society anymore, FiFi is to be treated like the little girl  she really is 
And Those are Maid Fifi`s Rules from now on:

1. Treated like a subordinate -  FiFi is weak and unable to make smart decisions and therefore needs to be treated like a subordinate with rules, rewards and punishments. Know that maids need limits.  Reward your maid for good behavior as well as punishing for bad.  Be consistent.  Explain your rules. Have a reward-punishment system in place for your maid. 
2. Owning things:: FiFi is to own nothing - not even her own body, mind and soul.
3. Jobs: The maid has  two  jobs – total obedience and servitude. She shall always be busy keeping the home
4. Sexuality: The maid should be wet and ready for her Superiors's pleasure at all times
5. Speech: The maid should be seen and not heard 
6. Permission: FiFi the maid should always get permission to do anything that makes something go into or out of her body – eating, drinking, sex and excretion.
7. Sight: FiFi the maid is to NEVER look directly at her Superiorwithout permission 
8. Staying quiet: FiFi The Maid will NEVER offer opinions to any sUPERIORS without permission.
9. Punishment: FiFi the maid is to be rewarded for good behavior - but punished, perhaps severely, if she is displeasing or forgets her place.  FiFi the maid is made weak like a child and with a high voice like a child and with the naive intelligence of a child so that she would need to be treated like a child and disciplined like a child - with rules, rewards and punishments and so that she could be beaten easily if not pleasing.
10. Control: FiFi the maid  must spend her lifetime always under the control of a Superior, and should never go back into high society as a classy Lady anymore, but as a maid.

March 25th 2019

My maid's uniform
Today, Madame Valois was talking about my maid`s uniform. She even mentioned, I should get several ones. But never elegant designer dresses, gowns and blouses anymore:  Madame Valouis said:

1. The maid`s uniform should be uncomfortable to wear 
2. FiFi should look embarrasing in it, not 'sexy', so that she feels ridiculous wearing it;   
3. It should require effort to keep it looking clean and smart so that it is an irksome task to prepare it for her punishment session 
4. It should be awkward to attire herself in it and fiddly to keep looking precisely right 
5. It should offer plenty of scope for failing to reach the required standard of presentation 
6. Uniform rules should encompass all aspects of her personal presentation and grooming, not just the clothes themselves 
7. She must know the uniform rules in detail and be able to recite them or write them down on demand
8. She must know how to present herself for any aspect of uniform inspection and the correct responses to.

March 27th 2019

While doing chores in my superior`s Madame Valois`s home, sometimes, guest are coming in. One of those dominant looking master-gentlemen, who were visiting Madame Valois, laughed about me and my new fate and commented, when seeing me standing in the garden:

• maids should not leave indoors unescorted
• and a maid should only be allowed out on a leash too !!
• maids don't require free choice when out
• well the further the fall the less rights a maid has, he said at the end.

March 29th 2019

One of Madame Valois`girlfriends, who visited her today and saw me scrubbing floors, just mentioned:

"Hehe well FIFI, you seem to have found your true place in society now, as a maid."

"Ma'am," I only  said, "That is not my true place, soon I will be back in high society."

She then replied: "Maybe yes, but only as a serving maid. FiFi, finally you seem to deserve to get a suspension for your big mouth. Maybe like a gag down in your throat. may even pressing your voice cords away so you can only huff without making any sounds. But you wouldn't unable to slide even deeper in your fall from grace."

March 31st 2019

"How is the cleaning of the pool coming?" Madame Valois said.  "You really want me to clean your SL pool?" I asked back.  "Daily tasks, remember," she only said and I continued cleaning Madame Valois huge Pool with a brush .

April 4th 2019

It`s my third week as a maid. As Madame Valois`maid. Meanwhile, after my daily life changed completely, Madame Valois treats me like a real maid. She ignores my former lifestyle and position completely and expect me to be just a serving maid. She said, I should be treated like a maid in Real Life would be treated. I should work and serve, so she gave me a time schedule.the 

As soon as I am online, I must report about my presence and  must start to scrub the pool, first. After one hour scrubbing pool with a teeth brush, I am allowed to scrub stones in garden with another smaller brush. After an hour, I am ordered to polish her pretty expensive shoes, until she is online too, to give me my daily orders.

April 9th 2019

Madame Valois told me, that she will expect me to do chores in Real Life as well, one day. Especially, I have to wash her pretty car soon in Real Life. That`s why I am trained to do it in SecondLife first. Wearing leg cuffs and my maids uniform.

April 15th 2019

Madame Valois told me again, if i would not be able to do my job well, she will add some time of servitude. So I start to clean her car agaun, scrub the pool again and practice my curtsies properly. She also reminds me: If I don `t  pay back the bet fee, I will end up as her property She already put some pics of my former life and my maid`s life into the pic gallery so that everybody can see how I am fallen....

How an Ex-Lady is trained to do a curtsy/ courtesy well:

„A Maid now, as you are yow“, my girlfriend said to me, „should do a curtsy well to their superiors. Then she explained me how to do a curtsy correct:

First she explained the different spelling:

curtsy - "bending the knee and lowering the body as a gesture of respect," a 16c. variant of courtesy. Not originally exclusively feminine.
courtesy - from O.Fr. curtesie, from curteis "courteous," from curt "court". A specialized sense of curtesie is the source of English curtsy.


Then she said, if someone is entering a room, from now on , you will do a curtsy always.
"First, you draw back the right foot, getting it straight behind the other, and down you go, as far as the suppleness of your limbs will permit, coming up to the "recover" with all the weight on the right foot, and the left pointed out most daintily. "

While on duty you always wear a uniform - navy or gray dress with white cuffs for mornings and a more formal black dress with 3/4 sleeves and lace cuffs for evenings.
And yes, you are always neat with a clean apron, your apron lightly starched and especially likes the bow to be perfect behind your back! This in fact took a lot of practice to perfect."


When and how many times a day me, Maid FIFI is required to curtsy? This will FiFI`s prayer from now on:
"Every-time I enter her (Mistress/ Superiors) presence or leave a room she is in, I am required to curtsy to acknowledge her status and when asked to do something I will also curtsy before leaving. For instance if she asks me to prepare her bath, I will say 'Certainly My Lady' and curtsy and then suppose immediately she says lay out her clothes etc for her, I will again re-curtsy! In fact I really love waiting on her Ladyship as personal maid the best."

I address her as 'My Lady' and always curtsy if she enters a room I am working in or every time I answer 'Yes My Lady' or always before I leave her presence. I know she loves me doing so and that is why I am here in the first place. In fact I was even shown how she would like me to curtsy!"

So what is the proper way for a maid to curtsy to her employer?
"I was taught the correct way to curtsy on my arrival and when and where. I am left handed, so I place my left foot behind my right foot, catch my dress with my finger-tips and widen my dress slightly and bend my knees and lower my body about 2 or 3 inches etc, hold there a second and rise again. ...I do not bow my head, but do not make eye contact either."

I didn't know this before but there are different types of curtsies to be used for different people. For instance if you were curtsying to royalty (such as the Queen of England) your curtsy would we low with head bowed. If you were curtsying before an English country dance began it would be a grander more exaggerated curtsy than if you were just bobbing to friend or acquaintance. I also hadn't thought of this before but other countries, particularly African countries still use curtsies on a regular basis!

FiFi has learned: "In Monaco I am told it is still very common as its seen as a symbol of status and personal wealth when the house owner is entertaining. Then in countries like Zimbabwe its the tradition that women, especially from the Shona tribe always curtsey when greeting one another, how beautiful I think! However its in a different style, they join their 2 hands together and then bend their knees, unlike the British style I practice. Its amazing once you are seen to curtsey, the information you find out from guests and other's comments."

Contracted Maid or Slave? 

People are asking me, whether i am a slave or not. I always say, i am just a Lady who „must“ work as a maid at the moment. When my employer, Madame Valois is listening to my issues….about that „slavery word“….and just said: „FiFi Although you're not being paid for it, and you repay your debt. So one could probably call it contracted slavery. I shrugged, you mean, you see mea s a „contracted slavemaid“…..then Madame Valois showed tot he leg and arm cuffs and said, yes, and clicked on the heavy steel collar and said; yes, of course, or do a fine Lady wear such a humiliating steel neck collar?
Even your best „former girlfriends“ treat you like a simple maid and thinks you are a slavemaid….


So what is the difference between a submissive and a slave (maid)?

I could begin by telling you what others might say, or have said:

• A submissive is someone who negotiates; a slave does not
• A submissive has limits; a slave has given up all limits except those which his/her owner sets for them.
• A submissive obeys and serves by choosing to do so each time and retains her will. A slave initially makes a choice to obey his/her master/mistress at all times and then submits to the will of  his/her master at all times.
• A submissive accepts submission, while a slave accepts obedience.
• A submissive has retained some rights within the context of the D/s relationship, whereas a slave has given up all rights and becomes, in effect, property.
• A submissive is owned, but a slave is possessed.
• A slave is not allowed to sit on furniture or wear clothes, and always kneels at his/her owner’s feet.
• A submissive has a safe-word to end play, while a slave has consented to no-consent.
• A slave must be a submissive, but a submissive is not necessarily a slave.
• Being a submissive is just a step on the way to the “ultimate” state of submission, which is being a slave.
• A slave is more submissive than a “mere” submissive. Submissives are just playing; slaves live the lifestyle.
• A submissive has more self-respect than a slave. Slaves are crazy, because who in their right mind would want to be a slave?